“I miss you. Do you want to be friends again? If so, would and could things be different? Would you work with me to sort out what is my pathology and what is yours, such that we are both stronger and better able to relate to each other and everyone else appropriately? This would involve a sincere desire to develop and grow for our own and everyone’s sake, a lot of honesty and probably a therapist each.
“I know I ask a lot. In fact, I ask everything of you. You know that I also offer everything of me. There is no rush, and whatever you decide, know that I love you now and always.”